I hate mosquitoes and nasty chemical repellents so I can’t wait to try the Rose Geranium Insect Repellent from Thistle Farms. It’s organic, DEET-free, and made by women in Rwanda who have survived genocide. My friends at Thistle Farms swear by it and I adore them so it’s a must for me and I hope for you. Thistle Farms is a community of women who have survived trafficking, prostitution and addiction and their program and work are amazing. To learn about the repellent, watch this two-minute video. You can buy the Rose Geranium repellent for $14 a bottle or $26 for two by visiting Thistle Farms online here.
If you are looking for a last minute father’s day suggestion, consider a donation in honor of your dad to one of these organizations, whose missions feel especially important this weekend: Southern Poverty Law Center, dedicated to fighting hate and bigotry and to seeking justice for the most vulnerable members of our society; Beyond Differences, dedicated to ending social isolation among students in middle school; Americans for Responsible Solutions, founded by Gabby and Mark Giffords to seek commonsense protections from gun violence; the National Alliance on Mental Illness, dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.
As an advisory board member of Nepal Youth Foundation (NYF) in Kathmandu, I trust them to know where the greatest needs are in Nepal right now. Already NYF is delivering mattresses and surgical supplies to hospitals, and has established a shelter for patients who are ready to be discharged from the hospital but have no place to go because their homes are destroyed, there is no transport, and their relatives can’t come for them. Looking ahead to the massive demand there will be for skilled construction workers, NYF is leveraging its experience in job training and construction projects to train 1,000 people in construction skills that incorporate seismic safety, mostly in villages where the majority of the destruction occurred. Using its 25 years of experience building schools and classrooms, NYF will be rebuilding 50 devastated schools. NYF is by no means the only group that has sprung into action to help in the aftermath of the catastrophic earthquake, but they are the one I most trust to address pressing needs in a cost-efficient and effective way. In addition to emergency relief through the Red Cross, please consider supporting long-term rebuilding efforts through NYF’s Earthquake Disaster Relief Program.
Yesterday, Vice President Joe Biden and Sen. Barbara Mikulski announced that $41 million in federal funding will be used to test the approx. 400,000 backlogged rape kits sitting in storage around the country. While many of those kits have languished in resource-strapped labs, Mikulski noted a Department of Justice study that also found untested rape kits sitting in police officers’ desks and lockers, never even making it to the lab “because somehow or another they weren’t seen as important enough to move forward.” “There is a horrific statistic from the CDC that says one in four women will face rape, violence, or stalking,” Mikulski said. Women are then often “doubly victimized by a system that doesn’t follow through on the prosecution.” Biden and Mikulski also helped pass the 1994 Violence Against Women Act, ensuring that women would not have to pay for their rape-kit exams and would never have their sexual history used against them in a rape trial.
At a recent gathering of The Isabel Allende Foundation, we had the opportunity to explore the topic of resilience—why some individuals and communities are able to rebound from even the most horrific tragedies while others never do so. We were particularly blessed to be having this conversation with the brilliant Nina Blackwell, an advisor to a network of philanthropies founded by Pam and Pierre Omidyar. Nina shared research from the HopeLab’s Resilience Initiative: a sense of healthy connection to others, a sense of purpose in life and a sense of control over one’s destiny appear to be key to human resilience across many cultures. Understanding the factors that contribute to resilience can, of course, help us better contribute to the well-being of those whose lives we seek to improve through our philanthropic work. If you are aware of other interesting research on resilience, please do share.
In November 1957, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. wrote, “When evil men plot, good men must plan. When evil men burn and bomb, good men must build and bind. When evil men shout ugly words of hatred, good men must commit themselves to the glories of love.” More than 50 years later, I meet my fear and doubt by remembering these words and the courage of an extraordinary leader. Today was a fine day to recommit.
Last week, Forbes published its list of reputable nonprofit organizations working to end the spread of Ebola in West Africa. The list includes many names you will recognize, among them Doctors without Borders, The Red Cross, AmeriCares and Unicef USA. I want to draw your attention to Emergency USA, an international organization I personally know from my due diligence work with The Khaled Hosseini Foundation. Due to the Ebola outbreak, Emergency USA is operating the only fully functional hospital in Sierra Leone. They have also opened a treatment center in Freetown and are currently raising money to fund a larger 90-bed facility in the same location by November 2014. Though they are dwarfed in size by some of the others on this list, they deliver measurable impact and have proven themselves to be efficient and accountable with donations. At a minimum, $20 pays for a set of disposable Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) to help protect Emergency’s staff so please spread the word.
Every week, and I mean every week, I receive an email or Facebook post requesting that I support the walk, swim, ride or other personal activity of someone I know who is raising funds to help end an illness, injustice or social inequity. In the past two weeks alone, I have received invitations to support personal campaigns for breast and brain cancer, ALS, flood relief and the education of Rwandan girls. Though I cannot contribute to them all, these emails make me happy—each a testament to the generosity of the human spirit and the innate longing we each have to help make the world a better place. My thanks and a deep bow to all who are donning running shoes, bike kits, swimsuits and climbing gear for the greater good.