$41 Million to Clear the Rape Kit Backlog

bidenYesterday, Vice President Joe Biden and Sen. Barbara Mikulski announced that $41 million in federal funding will be used to test the approx. 400,000 backlogged rape kits sitting in storage around the country. While many of those kits have languished in resource-strapped labs, Mikulski noted a Department of Justice study that also found untested rape kits sitting in police officers’ desks and lockers, never even making it to the lab “because somehow or another they weren’t seen as important enough to move forward.” “There is a horrific statistic from the CDC that says one in four women will face rape, violence, or stalking,” Mikulski said. Women are then often “doubly victimized by a system that doesn’t follow through on the prosecution.” Biden and Mikulski also helped pass the 1994 Violence Against Women Act, ensuring that women would not have to pay for their rape-kit exams and would never have their sexual history used against them in a rape trial.

Exploring Resilience

Resilient children at Nepal Youth Foundation

Resilient children at Nepal Youth Foundation

At a recent gathering of The Isabel Allende Foundation, we had the opportunity to explore the topic of resilience—why some individuals and communities are able to rebound from even the most horrific tragedies while others never do so. We were particularly blessed to be having this conversation with the brilliant Nina Blackwell, an advisor to a network of philanthropies founded by Pam and Pierre Omidyar. Nina shared research from the HopeLab’s Resilience Initiative: a sense of healthy connection to others, a sense of purpose in life and a sense of control over one’s destiny appear to be key to human resilience across many cultures.  Understanding the factors that contribute to resilience can, of course, help us better contribute to the well-being of those whose lives we seek to improve through our philanthropic work. If you are aware of other interesting research on resilience, please do share.

Now, as then…

MLKIn November 1957, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. wrote, “When evil men plot, good men must plan. When evil men burn and bomb, good men must build and bind. When evil men shout ugly words of hatred, good men must commit themselves to the glories of love.” More than 50 years later, I meet my fear and doubt by remembering these words and the courage of an extraordinary leader. Today was a fine day to recommit.

Love Heals Every Body

becca-women Thistle Farms is an extraordinary social enterprise run by women who have survived lives of prostitution, trafficking, addiction and life on the streets. To sustain their recovery programs, the women at Thistle Farms create hand-made natural bath and body products. Purchases of these products directly benefit the women by whom they were made. Through its Shared Trade initiative, Thistle Farms is now also selling products handmade by women survivors worldwide. If you’d like to save a life while shopping for the holidays, visit the online stores for Thistle Farms and Shared Trade. The sites are humble, but the products are beautiful.

Happy Thanksgiving

pigletToday I give thanks for your work, passion, dedication, courage and compassion. There is much to be done, for sure, but I stand in awe of what you have already accomplished — in Sierra Leone, Haiti, Nepal, Afghanistan, the US, Israel, Palestine and beyond. You are my heroes.

Help for Sierra Leone

Emergency USALast week, Forbes published its list of reputable nonprofit organizations working to end the spread of Ebola in West Africa. The list includes many names you will recognize, among them Doctors without Borders, The Red Cross, AmeriCares and Unicef USA. I want to draw your attention to Emergency USA, an international organization I personally know from my due diligence work with The Khaled Hosseini Foundation. Due to the Ebola outbreak, Emergency USA is operating the only fully functional hospital in Sierra Leone. They have also opened a treatment center in Freetown and are currently raising money to fund a larger 90-bed facility in the same location by November 2014. Though they are dwarfed in size by some of the others on this list, they deliver measurable impact and have proven themselves to be efficient and accountable with donations. At a minimum, $20 pays for a set of disposable Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) to help protect Emergency’s staff so please spread the word.

Giving it Up for the Greater Good

breast cancer runEvery week, and I mean every week, I receive an email or Facebook post requesting that I support the walk, swim, ride or other personal activity of someone I know who is raising funds to help end an illness, injustice or social inequity. In the past two weeks alone, I have received invitations to support personal campaigns for breast and brain cancer, ALS, flood relief and the education of Rwandan girls. Though I cannot contribute to them all, these emails make me happy—each a testament to the generosity of the human spirit and the innate longing we each have to help make the world a better place. My thanks and a deep bow to all who are donning running shoes, bike kits, swimsuits and climbing gear for the greater good.

May I be even a little like her


Photo by Lori Barra

I am so grateful that I have, after 14 years as a volunteer and donor, been asked to serve on the Advisory Board of Nepal Youth Foundation –an organization providing freedom, health, shelter and education to Nepal’s most impoverished youth. It is a tremendous privilege for me to serve my role model, 89-year-young Olga Murray, and executive director in Nepal, Som Paneru. Thank you Olga for keeping me up all night all those years ago dreaming with you about your audacious plan to free 30,000 indentured girls and allowing me to be even the smallest part of your success.

Ford Foundation Kicks it Up for Ballet Hispanico

Darren WalkerFor years I have been wondering why Foundation staff, particularly those at large foundations, seem so reticent to admit that while giving can be hard work, it can also be a heck of a lot of fun.  Darren Walker, the new president of the esteemed Ford Foundation, has finally broken the “President’s Message” mold and expressed—in a video with a personal touch—the privilege it is to support great work that uplifts spirits.  Thanks for the nod to the joy your grantees bring to others Darren!

I’m a dreamer,but I’m not the only one

peace childToday, LinkedIn let me know that my consulting practice Wise Giving is having its 14th “birthday.” This is the first time I have been alerted to the age of my practice and I am grateful for the opportunity to express my gratitude to the incredible people who have helped me throughout the years and the hard working dreamers I’ve had the privilege to meet. When all seems lost, I think of the individuals and nonprofits I have met through Wise Giving and their tireless efforts to make the world a kinder and more just place. I can think of no better way to honor my own small milestone than by standing publicly in solidarity with the Parents Circle Families Forum, an awe-inspiring group of more than 600 Israeli and Palestinian families, each of whom have lost a family member or loved one to the conflict, yet continue to work together in support of peace, reconciliation and tolerance. My thoughts are with them and with all of you who have welcomed me into your workplaces and hearts these past 14 years.